Meet Una and Pascal
Meet Una. Frequent biting, hitting, scratching. A team she doesn’t feel confident leading. Planning, paperwork, and dysregulated children all competing for the same hour. She goes to bed most nights thinking she’s failed.
Meet Pascal. Same level of need in his class. Fewer incidents, not because the children are different, but because the day is built differently — communication, sensory needs and emotional regulation are supported before things escalate, not after. When something does happen, the whole team already knows what to do.
Same job. Same demands. Completely different days.
The difference isn’t luck, and it isn’t a personality type. It’s knowledge, strategy, and a proactive plan the whole team is working from.